Ibn Al-Qayyim Al-Jawziyya:
والرجل هو الذي يخاف موت قلبه لا موت بدنه
“A man is the one who fears the death of his heart, not his body.”
[Madarij Al-Salikeen/Portrait of a Traveler(3/248)]
I notice everything. And by everything, I literally mean everything. I notice when someone stops hitting me up like they used to. I notice when the way someone talks to me starts changing. I notice the little things that people do, and the little things they used to do. I notice when things change, and when it’s no longer the same. I notice every single little detail. I just don’t say anything.